Work Leads To Luck
Work hard. Let's unpack that.
According public health data, roughly 80% of Americans are “out of shape,” meaning they lack the vitality to meet recommended guidelines for aerobic and anaerobic activities.
Out of the 20% who are “in shape,” what percentage of individuals are in “game shape?” Game shape refers to a current ability to perform at a high level, not just at the beginning of a competition, late into a game or match. Furthermore, as I get ready to enter my 10th season of professional lacrosse next year, I have come to understand there is a final frontier. I call it ...
There are three things we can train: our bodies, our crafts, and our minds. When we exercise, progressive overload allows us to strengthen our muscles, increase our cardiovascular capacity, and enhance our physical fitness. When we learn and engage in repetitive training at work, skill development allows us to deliver products and services with competence. When we become mindful and gain clarity on what’s most important in our lives, neuroplasticity allows us to wire and fire brain circuitry and physiological movements with acuity and focus. Most of the population deliberately trains their bodies and their crafts; however, most minds remain passively undeveloped.
Why? A strong argument could be made about the invisible nature of the mind. When we lift weights, our muscles bulge. When we practice our trade, tangible results follow. It’s difficult to quantify growth of the mind.
It's the key marker of health. On all fronts, just like a tree with healthy branches that sway instead of snap in the wind, what’s flexible is healthy. How far one’s limbs and body parts can stretch without pain is an indicator of his or her physical vigor. How much a worker can problem-solve and overcome obstacles in his or her job is a signal of occupational success. When a person is under psychological stress and emotional pressure, how quickly he or she shifts from feeling to refocusing is the hallmark of mental strength. Again, flexibility is synonymous with healthy.
In the 2020 Premier Lacrosse League Championship, my team was winning by six goals in the 4th quarter. Our players were physically fit and extremely skilled at the technical and tactical elements of lacrosse. Nevertheless, as our opponent stormed back into the game, scoring multiple goals and defending well, doubt creeped in. Assertiveness gave way to hesitation as time seemed to speed up. We lost.
Devastated, as the captain of the team, I felt like a failure. Days after that game, I was at the gym warming up on an assault bike, getting ready for another workout, similar to the 350+ other days of the year. However, a thought crossed my mind as I pedaled faster and faster: under urgency and pressure, it does not matter how physically fit you are if you are not mentally calm. I may have been in game shape, but I was not in Championship Shape.
I dedicated myself to training my mind, engaging in mental performance training sessions with my mentors in Sport Psychology, who I now call my Personal Board of Advisors. I embraced the deep, uncomfortable inner work. I journaled. I visualized. I came to believe in who I could be… through compassion, love, and self-respect. I worked on my emotional fitness. I enhanced my inner circle. I trained my mind as often, if not more than, as I trained my body and craft.
In 2021, as a captain of Chaos Lacrosse Club again, we won the Premier Lacrosse League Championship.
Participants train their bodies.
Competitors train their bodies and crafts.
Champions train their bodies, crafts, and minds.
out of shape —> in shape —> game shape —> Championship Shape
Mark was born and raised in New Jersey where he became an elite high school student-athlete. He earned varsity letters as captain of his high school football, basketball and lacrosse teams and was elected into the National & Spanish National Honor Societies. He attended a post-graduate academic program at Deerfield Academy in Deerfield, MA before college where he earned his Bachelor of Arts degree in Economics from Yale University in New Haven, CT. He is currently a graduate student working toward his doctorate degree in Sport & Performance Psychology at San Diego University for Integrative Studies under Dr. Cristina Versari, Founder & CEO of SDUIS and former Head of Sport Psychology for the National Basketball Association. He is a Teaching Associate with Dr. Robert Gilbert, a Professor at Montclair State University (NJ) and a leading authority and author in the field of Applied Sport Psychology. Mark is currently the lead Mental Health & Wellness Player Advocate for the Premier Lacrosse League.
Mark is a Certified Fitness Trainer, Nutritionist & Mental Performance Coach and currently a graduate student of Sport & Performance Psychology at San Diego University for Integrative Studies.
At Mark Glicini Peak Performance, we understand how physical health reflects mental health, studies how intention drives behavior, and provides clarity as to why peak performance training requires an integrative approach, mind + body + spirit.
As the Mark Glicini Meaningful Growth Foundation embarks on a journey of endurance and togetherness against the trials and tribulations brought upon by cancer, I state: every inch of my heart is in this.
Like so many, cancer has had a profound impact on my life. It took the lives of my grandfather and uncle before I was born. For years starting in 2011, I stood by my mother’s side as she battled and overcame lymphoma. Her fortitude, unwavering support from loved ones and God’s will triumphed amid extreme adversity.
Although we have not and may not win every fight, we will relentlessly strive to make an individual’s growth meaningful and to ensure his or her family feels cared for and supported. Thank you for your love, God Bless!
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